Oh Eun Young, who met with members of All The Butlers at the Emergency Medical Center, appeared in a doctor's robe. Although he became famous as a "child care specialist," he introduced his original position as a psychiatrist who covers all ages. In this process, Oh Eun Young introduced "Professor Lee Kook-jong of Ajou University is also a student who taught him," and he was surprised by his name by naming it comfortably. Oh Eun Young introduced his nickname as Oh Eun Young of the world' as a doctor and a tough personality.
Oh Eun Young diagnosed the recent society as a "mind crisis situation" after the Corona 19 Pendemic.Oh Eun Young compared the mental-social damage caused by the primary arrow, the Corona 19, to the secondary arrow, claiming that "the primary arrow was not avoided, but the secondary arrow could be avoided if we cope well".
"Human beings are social animals, and the difficulty of corona 19 is more difficult because they have not been able to have human relationships since they have distanced themselves," Oh Eun Young said. The treatment was divided into two weeks of first stage relationship, and the second stage was divided into relationship relationship with others.
Oh Eun Young asked the sudden question: "Are you doing well with yourself?" Oh Eun Young said to the members who do not know what to answer, "It is good for me to cope with the situation as well as you. Some people are hurt when they do this. "
When Yang Se-hyeong asked, "Do you get along with yourself?" Oh Eun Young thought for a while and said, "I think it is that way. I can't say it's always," replied Oh Eun Young, who said: "You can't say that something is the right answer. A happy life is a comfortable mind and a good thing with the people close to you. You can’t get along with anyone. It is an important condition of Happiness to get along with someone who is meaningful and important to me. "
Kim Dong-Hyun asked if son had ever seen his mother on TV and said, "My mother actually does not do that." Oh Eun Young laughed and said, "It should not be too different from what I'm talking about and treating a real child. I am a person and I am angry, but I tried to treat it as I say. " However, he added, "I can confidently say that I did not do as much as the Corporal punishment. Children should not be raised with anger."
Yang Se-hyeong said, "I think I have become a healthy comedian because I am trying to avoid wrong behaviors," he said, "I am not a good person who grew up with a Corporal punishment. However, the child who did not receive the Corporal punishment was very close to his parents. "
Oh Eun Young said: "It's an important part: except for some of the abuses, most parents really love their children. The traditional way a child wants to fix it quickly because he or she is afraid of repeating his or her mistakes is to "frighten the child." It is not because he or she understands that the parent is right, but because it is just scary. That's the parents' illusion," he pointed out.
Choi Jung-in, for example, said, "For children, parents are a group of life and survival. The day before Choi Jung-in dies, when he is helpless, his father comes. Even the sheep who abused him wanted to catch the club, and it is not education that these important people are screaming with scary faces. "
There have been stories about various realistic situations related to children's education. When asked about the situation in which Tyler did not correct the mistake or understand it, Oh Eun Young said, "That's why children have to teach tens of thousands of times. Instead, you have to tell me clearly that you should not do such a situation. That is discipline. "
"It is demanding 'declaration' to discipline children and expect the answer 'yes, mother'. As for the situation in which the child is out of the house, "one of the parents should take the child to another place, and do not make the situation where the child is exposed to the place. And you have to explain why you brought it to your child. "
Oh Eun Young said, "Many people are confident that they never meet with Mental and Doctor. Mental and is a field of life. "He explained that Mental and is related to all generations and life, from parents who are worried about child care methods, puberty parents and children who are worried about each other's relationships, young people and workers who are worried about social life and human relations. When Kim Dong-Hyun asked, "Do you give me solutions and advice at that time?" Oh Eun Young explained, "It helps me objectify myself by telling me my thoughts and troubles."
The members confided in their "my troubles" based on the multi-faceted personality test (MMPI) written in advance. Lee Seung-gi said that he could not refuse to ask for a favor and that it would be difficult later. He said that he had difficulty because his friend's birthday party and the last shooting day of the drama overlapped. Oh Eun Young noted that Lee Seung-gi is 'altruistic and a person with faith in his ability', even worrying about the Feeling of a rejected person. "Sometimes you need resignation, not abandonment, and your life is something you solve, and you have to keep yourself well," he advised.
Yang Se-hyeong said that more than 80% of life's Happiness is filled with food, and that it is an obsession with food. Oh Eun Young pointed out that Yang Se-hyeong's tendency is too optimistic, so the problem is just gone. "Feeling comfort and Happiness through oral sensation is a defense mechanism to alleviate uncomfortable Feeling," he said. "Yang Se-hyeong is doing well with himself, but it is good to feel angry or upset negative Feeling and go through some stage to express it."
Oh Eun Young said: "Yoo Soo-bin is an extremely general and normal person, there is a Feeling that is so natural if you are human. It's okay, the person who misunderstands it is strange. "The message for Subin in childhood is" Subin is a good person. I am trying hard to become an adult and develop my life. Subin is the only one in this universe. "
Oh Eun Young advised those who notice a lot, "Ellen Burstyn's Feeling is Ellen Burstyn's, and don't take the person's Feeling." Her story, "The habit of judging, not others, is important," gave everyone a deep echo: the members were satisfied with the time they were able to look back on themselves through a frank story.
According to a survey by the Ministry of health and Welfare, the depression average rose from 2.3 in 2018 to 5.7 in the first quarter of 2021. It shows the portrait of modern people who have deepened their hearts due to more disconnected human relations since Corona 19.
Oh Eun Young's story of 'I need emergency surgery even though I'm going to get along well with others' gives a deeper echo. For all humans, relationships are important, and when we approach them, we stimulate each other and hurt each other, so it is really important to make relationships, but it is also difficult. <All The Butlers> announced two episodes of consultation on the relationship with Ellen Burstyn at the secret shipping center of Oh Eun Young next week.