Three daughters and three sons, the parents of 6Brother and Sister, found Channel A, "My Child Like Gold," which was broadcast on the 4th. From the first, the ages were 19 years old (female), 17 years old (male), 15 years old (male), 12 years old (male), 10 years old (female), and 6 years old (male). There were children of various ages living together. There were many Family members like this, but the children complained, "I do not have a Family to talk about." "What's going on in the bright and blissful gold mine?" My mother's "sick finger" and gold mine were adolescent sons (third). Geum-jaen took a high-handed attitude toward the fourth, who shared the same room, and his younger brother, who was uncomfortable with such a brother, fled to another room. When he heard that he was usually beaten by the third, his mother immediately went to mediate. However, only the words were arbitration, and the third was offended by one-sided scolding. The third, who needed a change of mood, tried to leave the house, but her mother (although it was only 7 p.m.) blocked her because she was late. Even though the third, who was prevented from going out, could not be in a good mood, her mother continued her one-way communication in the name of talking. Thirdly, Chimi seemed to have a hard time controlling her anger. Thirdly, when she entered the room, she was angry and cursed. "Adolescence is a time when impulsiveness goes up naturally. At this time, children commit something even if they are depressed, do something even if they are lonely, and do something even if they feel isolated. So you have to communicate well with the children and discuss it with them. "(Oh Eun Young) Finally, the third one went back to the room and still tried to get rid of his anger. "At this point, my mother would have liked to step back, but she did not. "Mom confirmed that she was drinking a drink in the room and nagged me to come out. The uncomfortable feelings of the two men confronted each other again. "Geum-gi was crying that her mother's tone was angry, and her mother adhered to her principle of prohibiting eating in the room. The conflict between her mother, who blames Geum-gae for longing for time alone and Geum-gae for not being able to control her emotions, seemed more serious than she thought. The conversation between the two did not find a breakthrough, and it circled like a repeating circle forever. Oh Eun Young pointed out that when her mother seemed unable to grasp the seriousness of the situation and the nature of the problem, she said, "I think this will not solve the problem." "In conflict situations, it's better to be far away. When it's not good, I say, 'Don't talk to me.' I say, 'Don't talk to me.'" (Oh Eun Young) Oh Eun Young emphasized that when communicating with adolescent children, the characteristics of adolescence should be considered. In addition, he explained that adolescence and middle 2nd graders should be distinguished from "hostile Repulsion disorders (frequent, difficult to control, and affecting daily life)," and that treatment is needed for hostile Repulsion disorders. I do not usually go to a hospital because I think it is two out of two, but the suicide rate of hostile Repulsion disabled youth is as high as six times. (Korean Pediatric and Adolescent Psychiatric Association, 2019) "I understand your mother's difficulties, this difficult situation of raising six children with love, but it's a bit one-sided. We need rules, especially since there are many members of the Family. But I think we need to think about whether the rules that apply to children are necessary for children or for me (parents). " (Oh Eun Young) Oh Eun Young understands the difficult situation of a mother who raises 6Brother and Sister, but points out an overly one-sided parenting attitude. "The rules are meaningful when the families discuss and decide. In addition, penalties should be discussed together. "Prize and praise when observing the rules are essential." Goldie, who has not been solved, exchanged messages with his friends, which included naked profanity toward his parents. Oh Eun Young explained that it is necessary to sHow 'big love' although it is a situation that parents can not easily accept because they are human beings. Children automatically bow to parental inclusion, when they realize my mother and father as adults. Oh Eun Young emphasized that I admire the broad embrace rather than the coercive way. On the other hand, the mother conducted a Urine Inspection on the children who woke up in the morning. The subject was limited to three brothers, and it turned out to be Nicotine Inspection, or Smoking Inspection. My mother replied that she was suddenly conducting a Urine Inspection because she was curious about cigarettes when she entered junior high school. Oh Eun Young said, "There are many ways to quit smoking, which is a comfort to my mother. A fight broke out during the cleanup. The first one pointed out that the third one cleaned the bathroom, and it quickly turned into a fight. That afternoon, when she heard that Brother and Sister had fought, she summoned the third, and of course the conversation did not go well. "Mom, rather than counting the hearts of the goldsmiths, The unjust Geum-pyeon only shed tears. It would be good if it was over, but this time Father, who came home, called again. "Father said," What is the problem? "Father did not respond. The father, who had heard the profanity of the goldsmith, could not bear the anger, and the goldsmith came into the room. Father pointed out the profanity and urged him to talk about the unfairness. "Geumpyeon confronted him not to shout." Suddenly, Father got up and threw out his clothes to get out of the house. There were extreme situations, sharp words that stabbed each other. Although the families watched were torn apart, the younger siblings were terrified and cried in fear. How can this conflict be restored? "It seemed urgent to change." Oh Eun Young mentioned the impatience of the couple to resolve the problem immediately. "He also pointed out that the conversation with the goldfish was merely a one-sided push. In the case of Mom, there was too much demand, but the demand for Mom was full. Oh Eun Young informed the seriousness of the situation with a stronger expression. Oh Eun Young Jessie's "Family Reorganization Project" as a golden prescription for 6Brother and Sister required the process of transforming a vertical organization into a horizontal one. First of all, I had time to talk comfortably and to solve the unfairness of the children in a democratic way. "Mom realized that the rule enforcement was wrong, and sincerely apologized to Geum - gi, but the heart was closed. As a result of Oh Eun Young 's advice, the Family members tried to have a lot of time. I also learned about the Family's mind through the 'Inner Block Game', and Gold and Father went to the ring to find the costume and sparred. At first, he tried to do everything in his power, but when his father was in trouble, he took care of him and took care of him. On the third day, the Family gathered together and made the Family rules autonomously in a relaxed atmosphere. "Geum - ji proposed to adjust the curfew, and Mom agreed to change it to 10 o'clock at night. When I was wondering about the inner feelings of my adolescent children, I was able to understand each other's feelings and prevent conflicts through emoticons. "On the 5th day, I opened my heart and expressed my feelings. As the parents changed, Geum-gai's change became apparent. I also opened a Family Sports Dialogue to strengthen the unity. "Geum was satisfied with the appearance of the changed mother Father, and the parents were able to get to know the children better."