Tonyan, why marriage is afraid "I'm afraid that four other people... will be like it" ('Gold Counselor')

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Tonyan has told me why he has become afraid of marriage.On Channel A Oh Eun-youngs Gold Counseling Center broadcasted on the 29th, Tonyan, who is working as a veteran CEO for 18 years at H.O.T, Top of Teens.40s, Tonyan said on the day.In the middle of the day, I think seriously about marriage, but on the other hand, I seem to have a fear of can I live well because I am marriage?Can I be a good Husband and a good father? This seems to be a problem. I think I seriously think that if I can not be a good Husband, Father because I am marriage, I can not make many people unhappy, he said.Tonyan was surprised to see Confessions that he had never imagined the future with his lover while dating.He also attracted attention by revealing a unique marriage view that he would like to meet with his future wife and each room and feel romantic.Hearing this, Oh Eun Young asked Tonyan about his parents marriage life, so Tonyan said, My parents were divorcing when I was six.The divorce trigger is Memory, but actually I was good - the parents fight was so hard - Moy Yat was so scary and fearful.So I think I accepted it positively when I said I was separated. Tonyan, who lived with Mother after his parents had a divorce, but because of Mothers bad situation, he emigrated to the United States with his father.Since then, he has welcomed three new Mothers because of his fathers frequent divorce and remarriage. There was no explanation when I remarried, and I just accepted it.I was so much called Baro Mother, and I thought I should. I think the alcohol impact was great, said Tonyan, whose father said he often does with the new Mothers.I was very tired and hated my father who was drunk at the time, he said. I went home after school and went to the Baro Friends house.I almost ate Moy Yat dinner and played late at night. I would not come home until it was time for my father to sleep. On this day, Tonyan replied with a dark expression, It seems to be a very difficult question. He thought, I think you raised me well once.I think I was a good man, but I did not feel it at that time. Will my father love me?I do not think I understood well, he said. It was difficult to get close to talking, but it was difficult to rely heavily.Oh Eun Young Doctorate refers to Tonys attachment relationship with his father and says, It seems that it is not good to mean attachment.I do not hate my father, but I think it was difficult to do good. When asked about his good memory with his father, Tonyan said, I think I have made conversation easier since I drank together.I used to say nothing when my father told me, but now that I have been talking, my father seems to have treated me like a comfortable friend.But soon after my father died, and after he died, I realized that I had been drinking. It was the hardest thing to know that I could not have a conversation that I could understand each other.Tonyan also said, I was caught up in Oh Eun Young Doctorate, saying that damaged attachments can cause anxiety, depression, panic disorder, and insomnia.I guess I did exactly that, he said.Tonyan, who was so depressed that he had extreme thoughts in his mid-to-late twenties, was obsessed with business because of his inferiority, but after his success, he felt a sense of discomfort.Oh Eun Young Doctorate said: People who have had damage to their attachment to their parents must look back and find out about the relationship, but they need to make bone-cut efforts.But doing so is the process that individuals need to grow, and they can recover their acquired attachment. Oh Eun Young Doctorate also told Tonyan, who is afraid that he will be like his father, Tonyan is different from his father.So the point of reaching will be different. Tonyan said, I do not know what this feeling is, but it seems to have given me a great courage to live a different life.I thought I can try, but I thought a lot of I will not flow like that.I am different from my father, so I think I can live a different life.
Tonyan has told me why he has become afraid of marriage.On Channel A Oh Eun-youngs Gold Counseling Center broadcasted on the 29th, Tonyan, who is working as a veteran CEO for 18 years at H.O.T, Top of Teens.40s, Tonyan said on the day.In the middle of the day, I think seriously about marriage, but on the other hand, I seem to have a fear of can I live well because I am marriage?Can I be a good Husband and a good father? This seems to be a problem. I think I seriously think that if I can not be a good Husband, Father because I am marriage, I can not make many people unhappy, he said.Tonyan was surprised to see Confessions that he had never imagined the future with his lover while dating.He also attracted attention by revealing a unique marriage view that he would like to meet with his future wife and each room and feel romantic.Hearing this, Oh Eun Young asked Tonyan about his parents marriage life, so Tonyan said, My parents were divorcing when I was six.The divorce trigger is Memory, but actually I was good - the parents fight was so hard - Moy Yat was so scary and fearful.So I think I accepted it positively when I said I was separated. Tonyan, who lived with Mother after his parents had a divorce, but because of Mothers bad situation, he emigrated to the United States with his father.Since then, he has welcomed three new Mothers because of his fathers frequent divorce and remarriage. There was no explanation when I remarried, and I just accepted it.I was so much called Baro Mother, and I thought I should. I think the alcohol impact was great, said Tonyan, whose father said he often does with the new Mothers.I was very tired and hated my father who was drunk at the time, he said. I went home after school and went to the Baro Friends house.I almost ate Moy Yat dinner and played late at night. I would not come home until it was time for my father to sleep. On this day, Tonyan replied with a dark expression, It seems to be a very difficult question. He thought, I think you raised me well once.I think I was a good man, but I did not feel it at that time. Will my father love me?I do not think I understood well, he said. It was difficult to get close to talking, but it was difficult to rely heavily.Oh Eun Young Doctorate refers to Tonys attachment relationship with his father and says, It seems that it is not good to mean attachment.I do not hate my father, but I think it was difficult to do good. When asked about his good memory with his father, Tonyan said, I think I have made conversation easier since I drank together.I used to say nothing when my father told me, but now that I have been talking, my father seems to have treated me like a comfortable friend.But soon after my father died, and after he died, I realized that I had been drinking. It was the hardest thing to know that I could not have a conversation that I could understand each other.Tonyan also said, I was caught up in Oh Eun Young Doctorate, saying that damaged attachments can cause anxiety, depression, panic disorder, and insomnia.I guess I did exactly that, he said.Tonyan, who was so depressed that he had extreme thoughts in his mid-to-late twenties, was obsessed with business because of his inferiority, but after his success, he felt a sense of discomfort.Oh Eun Young Doctorate said: People who have had damage to their attachment to their parents must look back and find out about the relationship, but they need to make bone-cut efforts.But doing so is the process that individuals need to grow, and they can recover their acquired attachment. Oh Eun Young Doctorate also told Tonyan, who is afraid that he will be like his father, Tonyan is different from his father.So the point of reaching will be different. Tonyan said, I do not know what this feeling is, but it seems to have given me a great courage to live a different life.I thought I can try, but I thought a lot of I will not flow like that.I am different from my father, so I think I can live a different life.

Tonyan has told me why he has become afraid of marriage.

On Channel A 'Oh Eun-young's Gold Counseling Center' broadcasted on the 29th, Tonyan, who is working as a veteran CEO for 18 years at H.O.T, 'Top of Teens'.

"40s," Tonyan said on the day. In the middle of the day, I think seriously about marriage, but on the other hand, I seem to have a fear of 'can I live well because I am marriage?' "Can I be a good Husband and a good Father?" This seems to be a problem. " "I think I seriously think that if I can not be a good Husband, Father because I am marriage, I can not make many people unhappy," he said.

Tonyan was surprised to see Confessions that he had never imagined the future with his lover while dating. He also attracted attention by revealing a unique marriage view that he would like to meet with his future wife and each room and feel romantic.

Hearing this, Oh Eun Young asked Tonyan about his parents' marriage life, so Tonyan said, "My parents were divorcing when I was six. The divorce trigger is Memory, but actually I was good - the parents fight was so hard - Moy Yat was so scary and fearful. So I think I accepted it positively when I said I was separated. "

Tonyan, who lived with Mother after his parents had a divorce, but because of Mother's bad situation, he emigrated to the United States with his Father. Since then, he has welcomed three new Mothers because of his Father's frequent divorce and remarriage. "There was no explanation when I remarried, and I just accepted it. I was so much called Baro Mother, and I thought I should. "

"I think the alcohol impact was great," said Tonyan, whose Father said he often does with the new Mothers. "I was very tired and hated my Father who was drunk at the time," he said. "I went home after school and went to the Baro Friends' house. I almost ate Moy Yat dinner and played late at night. I would not come home until it was time for my Father to sleep. "

On this day, Tonyan replied with a dark expression, "It seems to be a very difficult question." He thought, "I think you raised me well once. I think I was a good man, but I did not feel it at that time. 'Will my Father love me? "I do not think I understood well," he said. "It was difficult to get close to talking, but it was difficult to rely heavily."

Oh Eun Young Doctorate refers to Tony's attachment relationship with his Father and says, "It seems that it is not good to mean 'attachment'. I do not hate my Father, but I think it was difficult to do 'good'. "

When asked about his good Memory with his Father, Tonyan said, "I think I have made conversation easier since I drank together." "I used to say nothing when my Father told me, but now that I have been talking, my Father seems to have treated me like a comfortable Friend. But soon after my Father died, and after he died, I realized that I had been drinking. " "It was the hardest thing to know that I could not have a conversation that I could understand each other."

Tonyan also said, "I was caught up in Oh Eun Young Doctorate, saying that damaged attachments can cause anxiety, depression, panic disorder, and insomnia. I guess I did exactly that," he said.

Tonyan, who was so depressed that he had extreme thoughts in his mid-to-late twenties, was obsessed with business because of his inferiority, but after his success, he felt a sense of discomfort.

Oh Eun Young Doctorate said: "People who have had damage to their attachment to their parents must look back and find out about the relationship, but they need to make bone-cut efforts. But doing so is the process that individuals need to grow, and they can recover their acquired attachment. "

Oh Eun Young Doctorate also told Tonyan, who is afraid that he will be like his Father, "Tonyan is different from his Father. So the point of reaching will be different. "

Tonyan said, "I do not know what this feeling is, but it seems to have given me a great courage to live a different life." I thought 'I can try', but I thought a lot of 'I will not flow like that'. I am different from my Father, so I think I can live a different life. "