"Jung Jo-gook is not responsible"...Kim Sung diagnoses 'Burn Out' 12-year-old son 'parenting' shock ('Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest')

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In Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Destiny, Kim Sung and Kim Tae-ha hats were consulted for psychological counseling.In the 202nd SBS Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Dest, which was broadcast on the afternoon of the 28th, Kim Sung Eun and Jung Jo-gook, who are consulted by Dr. No Kyu-sik of the mental health medicine major, were portrayed.Kim Tae-ha said, I sleep with my mother now, I am old and I need time alone.As for the reason why I need time alone, When I sleep with my mother when I have stress, I have to listen to everything my mother has to talk about.It is hard to come to football, but there are many times when there is no Father. Kim Sung said, I thought I liked to do it.Kim Tae-ha said, I do not express my feelings to my mother. If I am uncomfortable, I should do it again.I dont think my mother should do it unless its completely uncomfortable. Im twelve years old, so what can I do? Sometimes when it is too hard, I try to think unconditionally about the vacancy without Father every time I get irritated, he said. There are not many families with Father.But we have no Father and my mother has to see three people alone, so I think that the vacancy may be large, so I have to play a role in filling up the vacancy (Fathers) vacancy.I am trying so hard, but there is something that Father can do. I can not do that, so I am sorry that my mother has to do it. Kim Sung said to Dr. No Kyu-sik, I talked about it without any hesitation, but Kim Tae-ha can feel that Mom makes a lot.I can tell my husband that there is no one to do it, so Kim Tae-ha is the only one to do it. Dr. No Kyu-sik said, I am parentified. My child is like a parent. The problem of parentification is not expressing self-emotion.Kim Tae-ha explains that emotional parentification is underway; when this condition gets worse, it becomes helpless, depressed, and derails in adolescence.The first thing is to admit to Kim Tae-ha dependency, and the mother should actually do three child care, So you should not give Kim Tae-ha a thing?Youll be in that conflict, and its important what you do, not for your brother or for your mother, but for your co-worker.For example, it is better to clean the living room than your brothers diaper. Praise points should be different. Its not Thank you for helping your mother.But shell still ask, and therell be an urgent situation. Tell Kim Tae-ha to say no once a day.When Kim Tae-ha asks why shes doing no, she says Im sorry my mom asked.If you tell me you do not want to do anything you do not want to do, I will ask you comfortably. Kim Sung also said, I am angry with my children. If they are wrong, it is my responsibility. I have no responsibility for the groom.As the family grows, I keep seeing holes.Because it is my responsibility, I think I have not been able to do it all, so I feel disappointed about myself and I want to do better, so I get more angry with my children.I can not even be angry a little, so I do not want to be so big that I want to do this. Dr. Noh Kyu-sik said, This is Burn Out.It was a stress that I could endure before, but this is getting more and more difficult, he said. After Burn Out recognition, adjustment is needed.I have to decide what to give up while living.
In Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Destiny, Kim Sung and Kim Tae-ha hats were consulted for psychological counseling.In the 202nd SBS Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Dest, which was broadcast on the afternoon of the 28th, Kim Sung Eun and Jung Jo-gook, who are consulted by Dr. No Kyu-sik of the mental health medicine major, were portrayed.Kim Tae-ha said, I sleep with my mother now, I am old and I need time alone.As for the reason why I need time alone, When I sleep with my mother when I have stress, I have to listen to everything my mother has to talk about.It is hard to come to football, but there are many times when there is no Father. Kim Sung said, I thought I liked to do it.Kim Tae-ha said, I do not express my feelings to my mother. If I am uncomfortable, I should do it again.I dont think my mother should do it unless its completely uncomfortable. Im twelve years old, so what can I do? Sometimes when it is too hard, I try to think unconditionally about the vacancy without Father every time I get irritated, he said. There are not many families with Father.But we have no Father and my mother has to see three people alone, so I think that the vacancy may be large, so I have to play a role in filling up the vacancy (Fathers) vacancy.I am trying so hard, but there is something that Father can do. I can not do that, so I am sorry that my mother has to do it. Kim Sung said to Dr. No Kyu-sik, I talked about it without any hesitation, but Kim Tae-ha can feel that Mom makes a lot.I can tell my husband that there is no one to do it, so Kim Tae-ha is the only one to do it. Dr. No Kyu-sik said, I am parentified. My child is like a parent. The problem of parentification is not expressing self-emotion.Kim Tae-ha explains that emotional parentification is underway; when this condition gets worse, it becomes helpless, depressed, and derails in adolescence.The first thing is to admit to Kim Tae-ha dependency, and the mother should actually do three child care, So you should not give Kim Tae-ha a thing?Youll be in that conflict, and its important what you do, not for your brother or for your mother, but for your co-worker.For example, it is better to clean the living room than your brothers diaper. Praise points should be different. Its not Thank you for helping your mother.But shell still ask, and therell be an urgent situation. Tell Kim Tae-ha to say no once a day.When Kim Tae-ha asks why shes doing no, she says Im sorry my mom asked.If you tell me you do not want to do anything you do not want to do, I will ask you comfortably. Kim Sung also said, I am angry with my children. If they are wrong, it is my responsibility. I have no responsibility for the groom.As the family grows, I keep seeing holes.Because it is my responsibility, I think I have not been able to do it all, so I feel disappointed about myself and I want to do better, so I get more angry with my children.I can not even be angry a little, so I do not want to be so big that I want to do this. Dr. Noh Kyu-sik said, This is Burn Out.It was a stress that I could endure before, but this is getting more and more difficult, he said. After Burn Out recognition, adjustment is needed.I have to decide what to give up while living.

In 'Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Destiny', Kim Sung and Kim Tae-ha hats were consulted for psychological counseling.

In the 202nd SBS 'Same Bed, Different Dreams 2: You Are My Dest - You Are My Dest', which was broadcast on the afternoon of the 28th, Kim Sung Eun and Jung Jo-gook, who are consulted by Dr. No Kyu-sik of the mental health medicine major, were portrayed.

Kim Tae-ha said, "I sleep with my mother now, I am old and I need time alone."

As for the reason why I need time alone, "When I sleep with my mother when I have stress, I have to listen to everything my mother has to talk about. It is hard to come to football, but there are many times when there is no Father. "

Kim Sung said, "I thought I liked to do it."

Kim Tae-ha said, "I do not express my feelings to my mother. If I am uncomfortable, I should do it again. I don't think my mother should do it unless it's completely uncomfortable. I'm twelve years old, so what can I do? "

"Sometimes when it is too hard, I try to think unconditionally about the vacancy without Father every time I get irritated," he said. "There are not many families with Father. But we have no Father and my mother has to see three people alone, so I think that the vacancy may be large, so I have to play a role in filling up the vacancy (Father's) vacancy. I am trying so hard, but there is something that Father can do. I can not do that, so I am sorry that my mother has to do it. "

Kim Sung said to Dr. No Kyu-sik, "I talked about it without any hesitation, but Kim Tae-ha can feel that 'Mom makes a lot'. I can tell my husband that there is no one to do it, so Kim Tae-ha is the only one to do it. "

Dr. No Kyu-sik said, "I am parentified. My child is like a parent." The problem of parentification is not expressing self-emotion. Kim Tae-ha explains that emotional parentification is underway; when this condition gets worse, it becomes helpless, depressed, and derails in adolescence.

"The first thing is to admit to Kim Tae-ha dependency, and the mother should actually do three child care, 'So you should not give Kim Tae-ha a thing?' You’ll be in that conflict, and it’s important what you do, not for your brother or for your mother, but for your co-worker. For example, it is better to clean the living room than your brother's diaper. Praise points should be different. It's not "Thank you for helping your mother." But she’ll still ask, and there’ll be an urgent situation. Tell Kim Tae-ha to say no once a day. When Kim Tae-ha asks why she's doing 'no', she says 'I'm sorry my mom asked. If you tell me you do not want to do anything you do not want to do, I will ask you comfortably. "

Kim Sung also said, "I am angry with my children. If they are wrong, it is my responsibility. I have no responsibility for the groom. As the family grows, I keep seeing holes. Because it is my responsibility, I think I have not been able to do it all, so I feel disappointed about myself and I want to do better, so I get more angry with my children. I can not even be angry a little, so I do not want to be so big that I want to do this. "

Dr. Noh Kyu-sik said, "This is Burn Out. "It was a stress that I could endure before, but this is getting more and more difficult," he said. "After Burn Out recognition, adjustment is needed. I have to decide what to give up while living. "