Recently, 'solution' programs that listen to the story of the performers and consult and solve the troubles are gaining popularity. In particular, Oh Eun Young mental health specialist is considered to have led the prime of counseling arts in broadcasting industry by spreading the importance of healing and empathy. However, it is a matter to think that the intention of appearing is changing as the appearance of entertainers who are suspicious of the intention to appear and the stimulating topic are combined.
Actor Kim Jung-min appeared on Channel A <Oh Eun Young's Golden Counseling Center> broadcast on September 30th. Kim Jung-min had time to confess the conflict with Mother and the past 'controversy over the suspicion of a snake snake'.
Kim Jung-min appeared with his Mother, Huh Gwi-rye, and told about his worries about Mother-daughter relations. Kim Jung-min's Mother and daughter showed difficulty with each other, saying that it is "uncomfortable" if they are together.
Mother confided in her daughter that she was "more difficult than Mother." According to Mother, Kim Jung-min is forced to interfere and nag at everything from Mother's attire to cooking when shopping, as well as to force himself to fit the style he wants. Kim Jung-min, who was unhappy but was embarrassed by Mother's attire during his childhood, admitted, "I think there was a Mother Award I was roaming."
Oh Eun Young, who was listening, said, "Kim Jung-min seems to be exceptionally sensitive to 'etiquette'." Kim Jung-min, who was pondering, said, "I am very conscious of the eyes of others. I think not only me but also my Mother think I am."
Oh Eun Young said, "Generally, Mothers try to do what I did not do when India was created, but Kim Jung-min is the opposite. Kim Jung-min, a daughter, feels like interfering with her Mother and claiming to be a guardian. " Actually Kim Jung-min was independent from his parents from the age of 15, and even played a role as a head of his brother.
Kim Jung-min said, "I want to be born as a Mother's Mother when I am born again." Mother, who suffered from a difficult environment, expressed her desire to be loved and lived in a better environment than now.
Oh Eun Young said Kim Jung-min's Mother also has a unique characteristic, saying, "The attitude of accepting her daughter's interference or nagging is very conforming." Mother said, "I am sorry" about the reason and said, "If I had taught more, what if I had a lot of things."
Kim Jung-min's unlucky family history of Mother and daughter has also been revealed. Kim Jung-bu's father had been habitual domestic violence for 10 years, and Mother, who could not bear it, eventually had to run away alone with her daughter and son. After a long time, Memory at the time remained a guilt for Mother.
Kim Jung-min also ran out of the house alone, leaving his brother behind because of his father's violence. The moment remained a bigger coarse and scar for Kim Jung-min than when Mother left. Kim Jung-min then started his entertainment career at a young age and became independent of India and was able to bring out his younger brother. Kim Jung-min said: "It's already gone and my father is dead, I don't want my mom to be sorry for me and be like a sinner until forever."
Oh Eun Young explained, "People who have experienced domestic violence can not form self-esteem." He pointed out that if a child does not get the respect or self-esteem that his or her parents should feel, he can lead to feelings for himself.
Kim Jung-min, who did not actively explain at the time, said, "I was not prepared for the sudden pouring of media reports. I felt shame in people's fingers, "he said." Even my Mother was asked, 'Did you write a billion?'
When Oh Eun Young asked, "Why did that happen to Kim Jung-min?" Kim Jung-min, who was thinking for a while, replied, "I should have broken up when I had the opportunity to break up." Because of his low self-esteem and fear of being abandoned, he missed the opportunity of parting and blamed himself for being swung by his opponent. Oh Eun Young said: "The conflict situation that has happened due to the other's fault is not something I can control - you have to get out of it quickly in situations where I can't control. If you do not notice it, you can experience similar things again. "
Kim Jung-min, the Confessions, said he thought of extreme choices during the courtroom, and he could not tell Mother the truth. Oh Eun Young pointed out that "Kim Jung-min is helpless when he is in a situation that he can not control," and said, "I can not ask for help from Mother or someone close to me because I have distrust of the world instinctively."
Kim Jung-min commented on the anecdote that he was trying to protect himself when his Mother was full-fledged when he was a child, and Confessions why "sinfulness" is ahead of love to Mother. Oh Eun Young said, "Parents jump even if their child falls into the water, but they do not say that they are sorry to get wet with the parents who have saved them."
Kim Jong Eun and his Mother warmly embraced each other and expressed their sincere hearts with the Confessions "I love you". Oh Eun Young proposed 'social clock matching' to find common points and points of interest on the subject of what happened at the same age for Mother and daughter.
Singer Sunye, who appeared on September 2, was criticized by viewers for his comments and attitudes surrounding the withdrawal process of the girl group 'Wonder Girls'. Although he said he intended to convey his belated apology to his fans, the contents were closely related to his self-centered excuses and he was doubtful of his authenticity due to his broadcast appearances in conjunction with the promotion of his new album.
The final was the "Drug controversy" of composer and businessman Don Spike, who appeared on the broadcast on August 26th. Don Spike appeared with his newlywed wife and was shocked by the Confessions that he "seemed to have autism in his four-person personality."
However, Don Spike has been arrested on charges of violating Drug management in about a month since the broadcast, and the story and story shown in the <Gold Counseling Center> is attracting attention again. Some have raised suspicions that Don Spike foresaw the possibility of his arrest and deliberately appeared on the air to secure his mental illness as a basis for reduction.
Currently, the episode starring Don Spike is stopped. Apart from the authenticity of Don Spike's intention to appear, it showed the danger that counseling broadcasts could be abused at any time as a means of 'lie and self-excuse'. This is a line that the production team should take seriously.
Kim Jung-min, which was broadcast on September 30, was the first time that it was aired after Don Spike's Drug controversy broke out. Although the nature of the case is different, there is a strange eye in that it has unfortunately attracted a person who had a social controversy.
This is why the <Gold Counseling Center> is actually a celebrity-selub-oriented talk show based on the concept of counseling. In the past, entertainers - Celebs used to use broadcast talk shows as a window to explain their controversy as well as promoting their films. In the early days, unhappy personal history or family history were first introduced to stimulate emotions, and in the second half, they talked about controversial events and actively excused or glorified their position.
In recent years, instead of reducing authentic talk shows, observational arts and counseling programs close to documentary have become popular, and in fact, there have been more cases where entertainer talk shows are replaced. In these programs, performers can only unilaterally tell the story they want to tell in the name of revealing their troubles or hurts. Even the family of the general public is brought together and consulted and comforted by experts.
Of course, celebrities and celebs have their own concerns and may be consulted, but the opportunity should go to those who really need help. It is difficult for the one-sided story of performers who can not check the facts to be indulged by the performers. I just hope that the 'Gold Counseling Center' will not become a 'Gold excuse'.