The bobsleigh national team, Kang Han, came to Channel A's Oh Eun Young's Gold Counseling Center and was comforted by the Mind Mom Oh Eun Young Doctorate.
At Oh Eun Young's Gold Counseling Center, which aired on the afternoon of the 15th, he introduced himself as a 25-year-old national bobsleigh from a nursery school. “I grew up in a nursery, so I think I can introduce myself to that word. Who am I to be abandoned by my parents twice? “I was abandoned as soon as I was born in January 1998 and grew up in a nursery for 20 years,” he said.
“I had a chance to meet my mother in the ICONTACT, but she didn’t come out. I’ve been abandoned twice. I wonder who my parents are and who I am. But I wanted to go to a game and see another Family and look at me. I wanted to know who I was. I have never felt my mother, so I do not know how to feel. "
Oh Eun Young said, “I think I live with a question about myself without finding the subject of life like a tree that stretches without roots. “There is a fundamental anxiety about her existence,” said Kang, who shared the storm with Oh Eun Young and expressed his complex feelings about her mother who gave birth to him.
“My mother called me first on SNS, thanked me for growing up, even cried on the phone, but she said she was nervous and scared. I had a new Family and told them I couldn’t meet them. I wrote them a letter to them to see them like Friends in the distant future, but they were lost.
“I understood her as much as I could. She’d be hard to bear in a younger Age than she was. Oh Eun Young said, "I would not be able to bear resentment or hatred," said Oh Eun Young, who said, "I would be grateful for giving birth to me if I did not give birth. That’s why I’m so grateful. It’s okay to hate her. That’s not a bad person.”
“I want to swear,” said Kang Kang, “and now I think you don’t have to give birth to me. I can’t live like this. I felt like a dot in the white paper. I went to the psychiatrist and took the medicine. I was going to take a month’s worth of medicine when I was training, and I wanted to die after eating it. I wrote a suicide note because it was too hard. "
“I write a suicide note in advance, not knowing when I’m going to die. If I’m reading this, I’m probably not in the world. Depression, anxiety, panic disorder, and so on. I think we should leave now. Everyone's healthy. Forget the strength of your life. "He was shocked by Oh Eun Young, Jin Young-don, Lee Yoon-ji and Park Na-rae.
Kang said, “I wanted to hide my parents from them. I lied. I was nervous. I hid my day care home until high school. I read my introduction to Friends in my first year of college, and I admitted it naturally. I was comfortable telling you what I had hidden, but I was afraid I would look bad on the other hand. I feel self-esteem. Ask Friends to treat me like my brother, my brother. I feel relieved when you treat me like Family. “My relationship with Friends has become important in my life,” he said frankly.
Oh Eun Young said, “When you decide what to do, decide on your own standards. You must distinguish your criteria from your own. I can’t stop the stimuli coming into the room, but people with a lot of resources protect me and solve the problem, but the strong one seems to have no dimension.”
“We don’t have enough psychological resources to learn from ourselves, such as self-esteem, pride, and emotional control, and external resources to get external help,” he said. I'll be a strong external resource. If you marriAge, I'll be at your meeting, your mother's. I'll be your mother. When you need to talk to someone, contact me. "
Oh Eun-young's Gold Counseling Center