"Drama-like things are real..." Song Jae-hee Ji So-yun, marriage confesses to the infertility of tears in fifth year
Actors Song Jae-hee and Ji So-yun have echoed their worries about the infertility at the 'Oh Eun-young's Gold Counseling Center'.
On the Channel A entertainment program "Oh Eun-young's Gold Counseling Center (abbreviatedly the Gold Counseling Center)" broadcast on December 31, Ji So-yun and Song Jae-hee appeared as guests.
Ji So-yun and Song Jae-hee marriage in 2017, creating a honeymoon-like atmosphere in their fifth year. Song Jae-hee said, "I thought I only liked my wife, but my wife likes me." I asked him to marriage like a crazy person at first sight. It was only a month since I knew. I asked for a few months to marriage, so I kept hating and I did not even date. Then I asked him to go out with Baro if he could marriage. We started dating on May 15, 2017, and the next day Baro called and said, 'We will marriage on September 7'. I could not love, but I was ready for marriage, so we did not have much time before marriage. "
The two people's troubles are the problem of communication between the couple due to the "inferiority." Song Jae-hee said, "Let's first think that we want to have a child with love and heart. So, after about three years, I prepared for the second year from this year. "We were worried about whether we could talk in front of people because we had such an issue."
Ji So-yun said, "I am waiting for a noble angel that I can not do with my efforts." Song Jae-hee also said, "We are waiting for a child that may not be our power." He said, "First of all, I heard that the hospital was infertile and I heard that I had to have a child through a test tube."
Ji So-yun said, “I couldn’t believe it. I don’t think so, but I thought I should show you that I don’t. “I thought it was not someone else’s story, but mine,” Song Jae-hee said, “but I didn’t actually talk to my wife about it.” I decided to go on the show and talked for the first time. Something I never imagined happened to us. "
In particular, he said, "The body of a woman is the hardest. I have a lot of medications, sleep anesthesia, and I am waiting for it. I am very worried about my wife and anxiety about failure in my mind. It could be a little longer than usual, it could be too long, it was hell for me, and then I knew for sure that I wanted my wife, not my child. I honestly hope that it will stop. I wrote a letter without my mind. "
Dr. Oh Eun Young said, "It is not lacking in effort to have children due to infertility, nor lack of love. I would try to make an effort if I could solve it with effort, but how hard, heartbreaking and sad I would be. When I heard that I was infertile at the hospital, I said it calmly, but I think I was sick. "
Ji So-yun said, “I am careful that some people have had a lot of hard time than me, but I hate the injection so much, but I have time to get it right, time to hope, and then I am desperate and desperate, and I was worried that my brother (husband Song Jae-hee) who watches will be hard as well.”
So Song Jae-hee said, “I heard about it. I was nervous at first with the injection, and I was so nervous that I thought I would do better than I did. I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I've had a lot of shots recently, but then I saw her stomach and she had a bruise on her stomach. I feel sick when I say that people who do it are going through it all. At that time, my wife said to herself, "It is hard."
Lee Yoon-ji, a member of the "Gold Counseling Center", who listened to the story, also sympathized with him. "I have had three unintentionally farewells with my child while waiting for the second. I was not sure that I would find a center for the subterranean center naturally and that there would be obstacles, so I could not bear the silence on the way home from the hospital, so I sympathized with the wait without a promise that I would not break the silence next time. "
In particular, Song Jae-hee said, “I have seen my wife, and I think I should play the villain, because I think it’s our problem and I’m going to blame myself for it. I did not want to have a child, I thought we wanted to live together, and I came out on the air and said that I did not really want to have a child. I wanted my wife to say that she didn't want to have it because she didn't want it, but she told me how to say it. I realized that there is a hardship of the mind that my wife is experiencing more than I thought. " Ji So-yun said, "If we are going to Busan, we have to talk about whether to take a train or a boat, but it seemed like we were trying to not go because it was difficult."
Dr Oh Eun Young said, “It is not a communication that does not play when there is no conversation and communication. But some people don’t communicate. They don’t talk about the subject they really shouldn’t avoid because they’re too considerate to be sick. I have a lot of 'Did you eat?', but in terms of the human spine, the most difficult and open problems that become bone marrow are the most difficult and open, so I do not communicate with you. Because they are so caring that they will be sick, and because of that consideration, they are sick. In some ways, this aspect does not seem to smooth communication between couples. "
He then diagnosed Song Jae-hee and Ji So-yun as very different people in temperament and said, "Why do we want to be parents? 'Ji So-yun and Song Jae-hee talked in their own conversation space. In particular, Song Jae-hee said, "I want you to be together as much as you can with the same mind." Then let's promise me now. It's too hard, and if you can't do it any more, you have to talk to me. Even if you stop because it is hard, it is not a failure and it does not lose. "Why not?"
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