There are no hospitals that have not been to pediatrics, radiology, etc. with the gold, but the test results were 'no problem'. I also took ultrasound, took MRI, but there were no abnormalities. If he could tell the cause, he would have to treat it, but it was all frustrating because it was impossible. But during dinner, the gold side showed a somewhat uncomfortable appearance.
"What do I do when the uterus is strange?"
The gold side picked up a specific part called the "cerb" and complained of discomfort, but the nurse, her mother, seemed to have no problem, and the gold side was upset that her ribs were sick. The gold began to sob. When he didn’t believe it hurt, he began to cry. The cry grew louder and more and more. My mother used various steamers to comfort me, but the situation did not improve.
Oh Eun Young Doctorate asked her mother how she understood the words 'the uterus hurts' My mother said at first that the gold side was 'sick around the genitals' and that her hair seemed to be in.' She then replied that she did not know honestly, saying that she was 'sick'. He said that he seemed to have been sick everywhere since appealing for Anxiety, and that the cause of Pained seemed to be 'Anxiety'. Why is it so sick?
Oh Eun Young pointed out that the age of the gold side needs to be considered. Geum-yi, who is 10 years old this year, grew rapidly last year and puberty began, and the second sex was coming a little earlier than his age and was receiving hormone injections. Oh Eun Young advised that women should have a full explanation of the changes in their body that they first experience when they start their second sex, and when they have a milky dream, they feel sick and strange.
Oh Eun Young noted that if such an explanation is not done properly, the child may search YouTube alone and think that the milk mongolia is similar to breast cancer symptoms and may suffer confusion. He also explained that girls usually start menstruation within six months if they complain of discomfort around the genitals. He carefully diagnosed that considering the development of the gold side, it would be related to the secondary sex.
He was not sure if he had been tested for any problems at the hospital, and he was told that he could not appear in the MRI even if he had been diagnosed. The gold side was watching medical footage of Pained symptoms, which was sensitive when Father suspected. Then he complained that Pained had begun again, and tears burst out. Oh Eun Young nodded as if he knew what it was.
On her way home, the good old man complained of pain, saying that she wanted to go to the hospital as soon as she saw the ambulance. Then the gold one burst into tears. The gold one, who returned home, refused to talk to the Family. Father said that when he does what he likes, he is strangely fine and that part is not understood the most.
Oh Eun Young mentioned the unfamiliar concept that mental problems may appear as actual symptoms in the body, which is called 'physical disorder'. Somatization disorders are different from the illness in that they actually feel Pained, and they are different from the health concerns that consider light symptoms as excessive illnesses. In fact, there was no problem in the hospital when the pain was present. In other words, it was really sick.
There are three diagnostic criteria for somatization disorders: at least four have Pained, two or more digestive system symptoms, and one or more genital system symptoms. It was just right for the gold side. I was sick, but the doctor said it was okay every time. Fortunately, the gold side did not show any serious depression.
So what made her feel like Anxiety? She explained that she had a Friend who was very close to him, and that she had been struggling with Friendship recently. The conflict with Friend would have been a great shock to the gold side, which is a tendency to have a deep relationship with one person rather than being close to many people. Oh Eun Young analyzed that the friction with Friend would have been the trigger for the tense gold side.
Friendship was a big Anxiety factor for sensitive (puberty) Sigi, and when problems occurred, 'Anxiety' and 'loneliness' came to be solved in the existing way. The poorly expressed emotion has not yet expressed his feelings. The uncomfortable feelings are manifested as various physical symptoms. In other words, Pained felt by the gold side was the language of the emotion of the gold side expressed in the inner Anxiety and loneliness.
"My heart is the hardest, I'm Anxiety, I'm afraid it'll hurt so badly. I think I'm going to get a bad disease."
He said that he was Anxiety even if he thought he could treat it, and that he did not know how to stop Anxiety thought. I also felt sorry that I wanted to stop crying but it did not work as well as my heart. When asked what I wanted to do if I had no Anxiety mind, I replied that I wanted to play more with my Sisters. She was feeling sorry for her Sisters because she only cared about herself.
This time, I decided to listen to the second mind that I had overlooked. The second was feeling sorry because my mother was only next to Sister. But she told me she couldn’t talk about it because she was afraid it would be hard, and she said she wanted to be a healthy daughter, but she was lonely, and she always cried, saying she played alone. She had endured it alone between Sister and her younger brother, who needed care. The studio was a tear.
Now it's time for a "gold prescription." Oh Eun Young explained that he needs a specialist's help, saying he needs to explain the symptoms to the gold. The most important thing about somatization disorders is to build trust with the specialist in charge. Also, you have to make sure that you have the limitations and duration of the test, because you can not learn to solve the difficulties if you visit hospitals and emergency rooms from time to time.
Of course, it didn’t get better at once, and she needed time, too, one day the gold tooth suddenly complained of abdominal pain, and she said, “Now you have to control your mind, stop it!” The mother’s inadvertent words brought her back to tears, and the two men, who had visited the heart emergency room, shared a frank conversation and comforted her. It was a precious time to approach each other's heart more truthfully.
He decided to write down his morning feelings with candles on the sketchbook (Secret Morning Paper) and painted them over to express his feelings today. The gold side responded positively, saying that it seemed to be sorting out thoughts. It was Anxiety-free work. The solution worked. The gold side, which shivered in Anxiety every day, was no longer suffering from pain, saying it was a relief.